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No Nonsense Parenting: Compliance, flexibility and disrespect
First Section
Introduction (3:19)
Why don't we suggest therapy directly with the child? (2:12)
The ABCs of behaviour (1:56)
Examples of the ABCs (5:37)
4 types of Consequence (7:05)
Is it always the adult's fault? (1:31)
Thoughts on punishment (2:20)
The child who doesn't respond to consequences (11:58)
Leadership
Leadership means acting in the child's long-term best interests (5:25)
How to get the child to listen to you (4:08)
Don't be selfish (2:48)
Modelling (2:59)
Feeling disrespected? Get over it :) (0:58)
Good leaders give good feedback (and can take it) (0:52)
Good leaders make children feel safe (2:46)
Is it ok for kids to disagree with adults? (2:39)
Stages in the process of teaching competing behaviours
Stages in the process (1:55)
Let's start getting it done: Commands (aka Yes Mum/Dad)
What are commands and how to give them (2:43)
Get your words right and practise under low pressure (2:39)
Use your imagination (1:44)
Use the child's imagination (1:19)
Write it down and get it done (2:56)
Giving commands_distraction and correction (1:53)
Add more difficult commands to your list (1:10)
Reinforce every incidence of compliance (2:03)
Continuous versus intermittent or variable reinforcement (3:51)
Commit to doing enough training (0:33)
The child and commands
The goal is immediate compliance (aka Yes Mum/Dad) (0:52)
Is it ok to give in? (2:30)
Giving commands with distractions (0:43)
The ABCs of parent behaviour during non-compliance (1:14)
Correction phase
The goal of the correction phase (0:46)
Extinction (1:53)
Extinction is not punishment (1:06)
Important principles of extinction (5:12)
A protocol for extinction (11:13)
Use your imagination again (1:28)
Extinction bursts (2:33)
What to do when the child refuses extinction
When the child refuses extinction (23:23)
Extinction bursts (2:33)
When is it OK to give in? (2:30)
The ABCs of non-compliance (3:56)
Extinction and non-compliance example (4:32)
The car example (4:14)
The ABCs of inflexibility (4:00)
Eating example (4:51)
The ABCs of disrespect (3:08)
When extinction turns to disrespect (6:35)
Final thoughts
When it's OK to give up (2:30)
A child's perspective (4:19)
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